The High Cost of Living

Tired of paying over $3.00 for gas? Feel like you’re being robbed? Ok, no argument here. I don’t like paying so much for it either, but I do like the convenience of my car. I got to thinking, though, about other things that I might be paying too much for. Right now a gallon of [...]

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Isn’t Black Beautiful?

Open a magazine. Read a newspaper. What’s on those pages? What kind of pictures are there? Turn on your television – right now. What do you see? You see white people mostly. You see attractive white people mostly. Now, that commercial about hair shampoo or eyelashes that just went off – who was in it? [...]

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Say my name, say my name…

I was reading a post at Clutch Magazine Online entitled, “It Must Suck to Be a Black Woman,” the gist of which I wholeheartedly agree, and was reminded that I had intended to write something along these same lines. I might have said around these parts how sometimes I’m just sitting at home minding my [...]

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Mama Was a Street Fighter

I know how she grew up, or at least I learned some about it from family over the years, because she didn’t talk about it much, and for her own reasons, she felt she owed it to the world to kick its ass. Me, not so much. I hated her volatile temper and the unpredictability [...]

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Bootleg

A few years ago, a friend’s then 12 year old son had taken up a new hobby. He and his buddies were rebuilding bikes – those popular ones at the time – the ones with the tall handlebars and low seats that encouraged young racers to stand while peddling. Their garage was the meeting place [...]

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Is Cheating on Your Spouse Ever Justified?

Interesting subject! “Significant other” indicates that marriage vows have not yet been taken. In this case, there is always an out, rendering cheating unnecessary. End the relationship. While a form of commitment has been entered into, it is not binding, nor is it worth the drama it could cause if discovered. Cheating on a spouse, [...]

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Looking For Daddy In All The Wrong Faces

They (you know who ‘they’ are) say that we tend to look for our fathers in our men. Whether your father was present or not does not alter this. A step-father or surrogate counts to a certain significant degree. If he was there, you were afforded an opportunity to experience life with a man. If [...]

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The Cheating Heart

Ok. So Tiger apologized. Good for him. Hope he lives up to all those fine sounding words. And then he’s heading back to rehab for his sexual addiction. So many people go into rehab for various ‘addictions,’ again and again and again. Is the therapy riddled with flaws? Are the therapists not able to get [...]

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